Tandem Soloing

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Tandem Soloing

Cliff's List has published an article I've written on an alternative to traditional community winging I call "tandem soloing".

It's the minimalist winging, for the minimalist seducer Wink.

But to be less slogany, tandem soloing is when two guys go out together, but avoid working the same groups of girls, and when they do, to simply take a divide and conquer approach instead of trying to pump each other up and all that.

One of the worst possible ways to ruin your night is to work with a less experienced guy who is tanking your interactions, so tandem soloing is a way to buffer against that.

You can view the article here.

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Re: Tandem Soloing

I feel like whenever I'm out with my friends, it's a one-man game really.
Everything after introduction is near useless seduction-wise.

It feels like a loss of time using more than a couple of seconds having a chat together with a girl while a friend is there.

Belief to note: it's not like he's going to guide my penis inside her anyway, one dick - one pussy (or mouth... or ass). I'm looking for 1v1 sex not 2v1. It's also so much less seducting that it is totally useless.

The best way is to say a quick hi and not use too much time being standup-monkey-chode (belief: Where would chodeman be if nobody was laughing)
and re-enter seductively when the time is right.

Just my 2 cents

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Re: Tandem Soloing

Hey alter,

I consider being out with friends vs. being out with "wings" to be entirely different scenarios. When you are out with friends, the point is, presumably, each other's company. When you are out with your wings, the entire point is to be out there chasing ass.

That's not to say the opportunities you get while out with friends shouldn't be capitalized on, though.

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Re: Tandem Soloing

Thanks for directing my attention to that.

"Problem" is, that all of my friends I go out with are usually "pua".
Personally, I never have succeeded up until this point to have a nice balance between being social with my friends and hooking up girls simultaneously. Ok, maybe a couple of times, but those are far and few in between.

But as you say, it shouldn't be capitalized on.

When I'm in partymode, I'm really in party mode
And when I'm in the mmmmm-mood I'm really "mmmm" Tongue

Those have been my past experiences, but I shouldn't be identifying/labeling them too much. I don't really know, I don't think seduction and friendly partyguy fits too well. Though persistant, note that I don't use much time on each girl, I screen for her compliance real fast with some simple escalations and if I see it's not on or doesn't have much potential I will check out another.

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