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There is a difference between women asking you questions because they are interested and women asking you questions because they are looking to screen you out.
Hot women will have more sex in their lifetime than you will.
Beautiful women are amazing, but most didn't have to do much to get that way. They were just born good looking. Not that impressive. Hell, even I could have been born a good looking women. It's easy.
Hot women will have more sex in their lifetime than you will.
Beautiful women are amazing, but most didn't have to do much to get that way. They were just born good looking. Not that impressive. Hell, even I could have been born a good looking women. It's easy.
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Start Listening
What a guy said recently:
More often than not, when someone is telling me a story, all I can think about is that I can't wait for them to finish. So that I can tell my own story that's not only better, but also more directly involves me.
Zip It
Since you aren't going to talk anyway, you will never even contemplate interrupting a woman while you are listening.You can just relax and focus on your deadpan face contact, getting close and grabbing her hand. Plus if you don't talk, you know there must eventually be a pause in the conversation that will set up a moment of sexual tension. Nice.
After this short pause, wait a few seconds. She is not done talking yet. After she finishes her thought a few times, that short pause will eventually turn into a complete silence. Now she is done talking about herself. Silence and tension.
The Best Part
After anyone talks for a long period of time about themselves, and you don't comment on what they just said, they often feel a bit self-conscious. Hey this is no secret trick. It's just natural. Now don't get me wrong, she is happy you were paying very close attention to her. But she never gets that validation she was hoping for. And lets face it - this is validation she is used to getting from everyone.
Yes, this silence may be awkward and create tense moment. But it's awkward for her, not you. Because she was the one talking, she will be the one who feels judged, not you. In this case, the pressure is on her. Think this might be kind of different from your normal interactions with women.
Listening is a very easy way to make women feel like they are trying to impress you. Plus it sets up a powerful moment of sexual tension.
Start listening!
More often than not, when someone is telling me a story, all I can think about is that I can't wait for them to finish. So that I can tell my own story that's not only better, but also more directly involves me.
Zip It
Since you aren't going to talk anyway, you will never even contemplate interrupting a woman while you are listening.You can just relax and focus on your deadpan face contact, getting close and grabbing her hand. Plus if you don't talk, you know there must eventually be a pause in the conversation that will set up a moment of sexual tension. Nice.
After this short pause, wait a few seconds. She is not done talking yet. After she finishes her thought a few times, that short pause will eventually turn into a complete silence. Now she is done talking about herself. Silence and tension.
The Best Part
After anyone talks for a long period of time about themselves, and you don't comment on what they just said, they often feel a bit self-conscious. Hey this is no secret trick. It's just natural. Now don't get me wrong, she is happy you were paying very close attention to her. But she never gets that validation she was hoping for. And lets face it - this is validation she is used to getting from everyone.
Yes, this silence may be awkward and create tense moment. But it's awkward for her, not you. Because she was the one talking, she will be the one who feels judged, not you. In this case, the pressure is on her. Think this might be kind of different from your normal interactions with women.
Listening is a very easy way to make women feel like they are trying to impress you. Plus it sets up a powerful moment of sexual tension.
Start listening!
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Bad Bootcamp led to Physical Attack by Instructor
One of my online acquaintances (he goes by the name of ForeverDrake) asked me to post the following on my blog.
This story involves people from Vin DiCarlo's company and some other small time players such as "Psych" from PUA Training and a promoter from NYC who is called "Nathan PUA" (who is behind Pickup Artist Events and I've had a questionable encounter with him as well some months ago). Apparently, the "instructors" just go out to get wasted and let some "students" tag along. It sounds like a pretty horrible experience all along, but it gets even better in the end...
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This is going to be divided into two parts.
Part 1 will be the bootcamp and the discussion that sparked this unjustifiable incident.
Part 2 will be the neck grabbing incident, feel free to skip to this part if you wish.
Part 1. The incident that began last year.
This started about a year ago, I bought 2 nights of bootcamp for a discounted price of $200 (so that would basically be $100 a night), I talked to the other 2 students that night, they paid the exact same price as me. We headed out to a bar to do some game, work on some sticking points, it was a fun night out in general. My instructors were Heartwork and Psych, it was not an official bootcamp but an under the tables bootcamp.
This was initially Heartwork’s bootcamp, however, after wards when I confronted him last week he said it was Psych’s bootcamp, which I clearly remember it not being, I will get into more detail on this in part 2. Heartwork also promised to help me sort through my goals and help me set them up, this would take roughly 20 minutes and we had never got to. Also I did watch him do this for another of his students do this that night.
Psych was cool to me and helped me out. I have vague memories of him drinking that night but he said he wasn’t and never has on a bootcamp before, so I’m going to give him the benefit of the doubt, I have not heard him lie to me before as far as I can remember. Heartwork however, I cannot say the same for. Heartwork too, however from my recollection of the experience he was pretty drunk and several other people commented the same thing on this.
I did end up losing Heartwork throughout the night, and at certain points in the night I had actually lost both instructors, that’s pretty hard for a 3 student to 2 instructors ratio. Both of the other 2 students on the bootcamp pulled early in the night. I had saved Heartwork’s number on my phone and called him and texted him a few times in the night to find him, he didn’t pick up my phone calls, that is understandable, it is a pretty loud club. He did however, text me back and ask “Whos this?”
I figure when you are about to take a student to game you that you would at least save their number. Or at least NOT drink on a bootcamp, especially if you’re an instructor who is not even the legal drinking age of 21. Heartwork says he was not drunk but had just one or two beers, I remember it being more but hey, I lost him a good amount of the night so it’s not like I can count every drink he had.
It was then that Heartwork promised me a bunch of material that he was going to send me for free, PLUS the 2 nights of the bootcamp. I was super happy that night and I hugged him, it was a cool experience in my eyes, it was also my first bootcamp so I decided to simply disregard the negative parts of the bootcamp.
After the whole bootcamp I e-mailed and texted Heartwork a few times, he did after all promise me a bunch of free products, I did not want to pester him so I did not do it too much, however, a majority of my e-mails and texts were ignored or simply avoided with a short “I’m busy” or something then followed by usually something such as, “I’m going to send you the products soon.” Which he didn’t, I ended up having to send him about 20 more e-mails before he ever sent me the products. I had to pester him and bother him before he sent me the products.
So about a week ago, I confronted him about the less than satisfactory services provided. I asked for a refund for the night that I did not go out. Heartwork gave me a weird response that I do not remember, he was surprised, then he said it was mainly Psych’s bootcamp, and that he was helping out on it, I remember it being his bootcamp and Psych helping out but whatever. We spoke briefly.
He also mentioned the other 2 students being the reason why I lost him throughout the night, that’s weird... To have 2 instructors and 3 students, and somehow lose 1 for a good amount of the night, wouldn’t you say that is strange? He then mentions to me that the price of the bootcamp was way too cheap and other instructors were mad at him and he got in trouble for it. Strange.
Then he says the other 2 students paid the full price of the bootcamp, which was thousands of dollars. I immediately caught on to this and parroted his statement back as a question, “They paid thousands of dollars for the bootcamp?” He then immediately changed his story, “Well... no... they paid about.... Um.... $700.” This is almost 3 times the actual amount each of them paid. I asked him “Each of them paid $700 or they both collectively paid $700?” He says something I don’t remember and then changes the subject.
Then I went to find Psych who I found immediately. I filled him in on the situation. He was really confused as he and I both remembered it was not his bootcamp but whatever, he goes back to talk to Heartwork, I am not here during this. After some time he comes back to talk to me, we have a brief discussion, then we head back to where Heartwork is. Now this new “Nathan Pua” guy is sitting here. He’s a bald guy, overweight to a somewhat noticeable degree, and wears some stylish glasses, a business suit.
This Nathan guy runs Psych’s business and I believe he is a junior instructor for Psych, although I could be wrong about this. I hadn’t really talked to this guy yet but he gave me a weird vibe. A good amount of the people at the convention said the same, and a few of them don’t like him and think he’s creepy. Whatever, not my job to judge.
While talking to me he paced his words strangely in an NLP kind of way, clearly trying to manipulate me, when I explain what he is saying and the incident that ensues, you will realize I was right. I sit there and he asks me to explain the situation so I do. Then he says that I’m not entitled to a refund at all, that’s fair. He offers me a $100 discount on a bootcamp that’s coming up, which was I believe $695? Now it would be $595. I don’t want anymore training if the quality of that night was any sort of barometer of how they run bootcamps now, and it is. Later on I find out the price of the bootcamp goes down to $395.
This “Nathan Pua” guy attempts to get me to buy the bootcamp even further, “Well this bootcamp could really take your game to the next level” he says. I refuse. He says “So your game is at the level you want it to be?” Etc. he continues this for a while, I get very annoyed. I tell him to leave. He looks clearly irritated when I say this. He obliges though and leaves, now it is me, Heartwork, and Psych. We talk briefly. It basically ends with them literally refusing me any compensation.
Later on I talk to one of my friends (Let’s call him Brendan) and who I found out put down a down payment for the bootcamp with Psych and Nathan. He is questioning whether he should take it as he has a family vacation coming up. I told him about my truthful experiences with the bootcamp and this whole incident. He decides not to take the bootcamp.
The next day or two Brendan and he says that they have been trying to get him to take the bootcamp since and they keep pressuring him, that sucks. I tell him to stick to whatever decision he feels is right. He says that he mentions his family vacation to them and that they don’t care at all. He’s apparently made up his mind about not taking the bootcamp.
Part 2. The neck grabbing and threatening to sue.
We were all attending a convention. Later on, during the last speech of the convention I look to my right, my buddy Brendan walks through the room with “Nathan Pua.” So, clearly something has happened, neither of them look happy. Brendan sits down near me but doesn’t make eye contact or talk with me, that’s strange.
I’m kind of waiting for the speeches to end because I am hosting my friends from DC who I promised to drive to the airport immediately after this last speech, it was a pretty cool weekend, I met a lot of cool people. I thoroughly enjoyed it, until this incident.
There is still a speech going on in front of me so I pay attention and watch the speech. Randomly out of nowhere I feel a hand literally GRAB my neck forcefully while I’m watching the speech, now mind you that I am sitting down in a crowded room with a speech going on onstage, I hear a voice talking as well, I look to my left and I see “Nathan Pua” grabbing my neck and talking down on me. He says “Listen you little fucking shit, if you keep spreading your fucking slander I’m going to fucking sue you for thousands of dollars!”
I say “Get your fucking hands off me!” He just looks at me, keeps his grasp on my neck while pushing my head with force so make my head jolt slightly. Then he walks off. Okay, now I am furious. There are speeches going on onstage so I decide not to ruin the footage during this occurrence. The speeches end and the camera turns off. I walk straight up to this “Nathan Pua” guy.
I can’t believe this fucking ass hole just grabbed my neck. I just looked at him and started screaming and cussing, I was fucking furious, this happened today. I basically started cussing at him really loud and yelling at him. He just looked stunned and I could tell he was scared, he said "You have issues man..." I kept cussing. He said "You need help..." At this point some other guys who were my friends dragged me out of there.
A lot of people saw this so I'm sure a lot of people think I have anger issues now, which is not far from the truth actually...
But...
What the fuck man? Does this seriously fucking happen in the pick up community? I was a former student and he fucking grabs my neck in public? I'm fucking pissed off. I wish I could have taken a swing at this guy. What a fucking piece of shit.
Judge for yourself. I was warning this guy about something like this happening, and guess what? It did happen. I just can’t fucking believe somebody is willing to pressure a client to the point of fucking walking them to an ATM machine to pull money out for them at that very moment, sickening.
And if you want to get in touch with this neck grabbing Nathan guy, just google “Nathan Pua”, his facebook is the first one that pops up. He runs lair events in NYC from what I’ve heard.
He did threaten to sue me and I am honestly very afraid of this happening. But I don’t want this happening to anybody else so I’m going to take the risk. From what I’ve heard from friends in the NYC community, he uses these kinds of scare tactics often. Can you even be sued for writing a bad review that is 100% true?
I’m going to end this with, Heartwork and Psych were not affiliated with this neck grabbing incident at all. They were both not there when it occurred, and Nathan made his own judgments to grab my neck and pull this stunt off. I think Heartwork could be an alright coach if he were to be sober the entire night. And Psych is a pretty cool guy who has good intentions and is probably a good coach who made the mistake of simply affiliating with a guy like Nathan.
Ciao.
This story involves people from Vin DiCarlo's company and some other small time players such as "Psych" from PUA Training and a promoter from NYC who is called "Nathan PUA" (who is behind Pickup Artist Events and I've had a questionable encounter with him as well some months ago). Apparently, the "instructors" just go out to get wasted and let some "students" tag along. It sounds like a pretty horrible experience all along, but it gets even better in the end...
=========================
This is going to be divided into two parts.
Part 1 will be the bootcamp and the discussion that sparked this unjustifiable incident.
Part 2 will be the neck grabbing incident, feel free to skip to this part if you wish.
Part 1. The incident that began last year.
This started about a year ago, I bought 2 nights of bootcamp for a discounted price of $200 (so that would basically be $100 a night), I talked to the other 2 students that night, they paid the exact same price as me. We headed out to a bar to do some game, work on some sticking points, it was a fun night out in general. My instructors were Heartwork and Psych, it was not an official bootcamp but an under the tables bootcamp.
This was initially Heartwork’s bootcamp, however, after wards when I confronted him last week he said it was Psych’s bootcamp, which I clearly remember it not being, I will get into more detail on this in part 2. Heartwork also promised to help me sort through my goals and help me set them up, this would take roughly 20 minutes and we had never got to. Also I did watch him do this for another of his students do this that night.
Psych was cool to me and helped me out. I have vague memories of him drinking that night but he said he wasn’t and never has on a bootcamp before, so I’m going to give him the benefit of the doubt, I have not heard him lie to me before as far as I can remember. Heartwork however, I cannot say the same for. Heartwork too, however from my recollection of the experience he was pretty drunk and several other people commented the same thing on this.
I did end up losing Heartwork throughout the night, and at certain points in the night I had actually lost both instructors, that’s pretty hard for a 3 student to 2 instructors ratio. Both of the other 2 students on the bootcamp pulled early in the night. I had saved Heartwork’s number on my phone and called him and texted him a few times in the night to find him, he didn’t pick up my phone calls, that is understandable, it is a pretty loud club. He did however, text me back and ask “Whos this?”
I figure when you are about to take a student to game you that you would at least save their number. Or at least NOT drink on a bootcamp, especially if you’re an instructor who is not even the legal drinking age of 21. Heartwork says he was not drunk but had just one or two beers, I remember it being more but hey, I lost him a good amount of the night so it’s not like I can count every drink he had.
It was then that Heartwork promised me a bunch of material that he was going to send me for free, PLUS the 2 nights of the bootcamp. I was super happy that night and I hugged him, it was a cool experience in my eyes, it was also my first bootcamp so I decided to simply disregard the negative parts of the bootcamp.
After the whole bootcamp I e-mailed and texted Heartwork a few times, he did after all promise me a bunch of free products, I did not want to pester him so I did not do it too much, however, a majority of my e-mails and texts were ignored or simply avoided with a short “I’m busy” or something then followed by usually something such as, “I’m going to send you the products soon.” Which he didn’t, I ended up having to send him about 20 more e-mails before he ever sent me the products. I had to pester him and bother him before he sent me the products.
So about a week ago, I confronted him about the less than satisfactory services provided. I asked for a refund for the night that I did not go out. Heartwork gave me a weird response that I do not remember, he was surprised, then he said it was mainly Psych’s bootcamp, and that he was helping out on it, I remember it being his bootcamp and Psych helping out but whatever. We spoke briefly.
He also mentioned the other 2 students being the reason why I lost him throughout the night, that’s weird... To have 2 instructors and 3 students, and somehow lose 1 for a good amount of the night, wouldn’t you say that is strange? He then mentions to me that the price of the bootcamp was way too cheap and other instructors were mad at him and he got in trouble for it. Strange.
Then he says the other 2 students paid the full price of the bootcamp, which was thousands of dollars. I immediately caught on to this and parroted his statement back as a question, “They paid thousands of dollars for the bootcamp?” He then immediately changed his story, “Well... no... they paid about.... Um.... $700.” This is almost 3 times the actual amount each of them paid. I asked him “Each of them paid $700 or they both collectively paid $700?” He says something I don’t remember and then changes the subject.
Then I went to find Psych who I found immediately. I filled him in on the situation. He was really confused as he and I both remembered it was not his bootcamp but whatever, he goes back to talk to Heartwork, I am not here during this. After some time he comes back to talk to me, we have a brief discussion, then we head back to where Heartwork is. Now this new “Nathan Pua” guy is sitting here. He’s a bald guy, overweight to a somewhat noticeable degree, and wears some stylish glasses, a business suit.
This Nathan guy runs Psych’s business and I believe he is a junior instructor for Psych, although I could be wrong about this. I hadn’t really talked to this guy yet but he gave me a weird vibe. A good amount of the people at the convention said the same, and a few of them don’t like him and think he’s creepy. Whatever, not my job to judge.
While talking to me he paced his words strangely in an NLP kind of way, clearly trying to manipulate me, when I explain what he is saying and the incident that ensues, you will realize I was right. I sit there and he asks me to explain the situation so I do. Then he says that I’m not entitled to a refund at all, that’s fair. He offers me a $100 discount on a bootcamp that’s coming up, which was I believe $695? Now it would be $595. I don’t want anymore training if the quality of that night was any sort of barometer of how they run bootcamps now, and it is. Later on I find out the price of the bootcamp goes down to $395.
This “Nathan Pua” guy attempts to get me to buy the bootcamp even further, “Well this bootcamp could really take your game to the next level” he says. I refuse. He says “So your game is at the level you want it to be?” Etc. he continues this for a while, I get very annoyed. I tell him to leave. He looks clearly irritated when I say this. He obliges though and leaves, now it is me, Heartwork, and Psych. We talk briefly. It basically ends with them literally refusing me any compensation.
Later on I talk to one of my friends (Let’s call him Brendan) and who I found out put down a down payment for the bootcamp with Psych and Nathan. He is questioning whether he should take it as he has a family vacation coming up. I told him about my truthful experiences with the bootcamp and this whole incident. He decides not to take the bootcamp.
The next day or two Brendan and he says that they have been trying to get him to take the bootcamp since and they keep pressuring him, that sucks. I tell him to stick to whatever decision he feels is right. He says that he mentions his family vacation to them and that they don’t care at all. He’s apparently made up his mind about not taking the bootcamp.
Part 2. The neck grabbing and threatening to sue.
We were all attending a convention. Later on, during the last speech of the convention I look to my right, my buddy Brendan walks through the room with “Nathan Pua.” So, clearly something has happened, neither of them look happy. Brendan sits down near me but doesn’t make eye contact or talk with me, that’s strange.
I’m kind of waiting for the speeches to end because I am hosting my friends from DC who I promised to drive to the airport immediately after this last speech, it was a pretty cool weekend, I met a lot of cool people. I thoroughly enjoyed it, until this incident.
There is still a speech going on in front of me so I pay attention and watch the speech. Randomly out of nowhere I feel a hand literally GRAB my neck forcefully while I’m watching the speech, now mind you that I am sitting down in a crowded room with a speech going on onstage, I hear a voice talking as well, I look to my left and I see “Nathan Pua” grabbing my neck and talking down on me. He says “Listen you little fucking shit, if you keep spreading your fucking slander I’m going to fucking sue you for thousands of dollars!”
I say “Get your fucking hands off me!” He just looks at me, keeps his grasp on my neck while pushing my head with force so make my head jolt slightly. Then he walks off. Okay, now I am furious. There are speeches going on onstage so I decide not to ruin the footage during this occurrence. The speeches end and the camera turns off. I walk straight up to this “Nathan Pua” guy.
I can’t believe this fucking ass hole just grabbed my neck. I just looked at him and started screaming and cussing, I was fucking furious, this happened today. I basically started cussing at him really loud and yelling at him. He just looked stunned and I could tell he was scared, he said "You have issues man..." I kept cussing. He said "You need help..." At this point some other guys who were my friends dragged me out of there.
A lot of people saw this so I'm sure a lot of people think I have anger issues now, which is not far from the truth actually...
But...
What the fuck man? Does this seriously fucking happen in the pick up community? I was a former student and he fucking grabs my neck in public? I'm fucking pissed off. I wish I could have taken a swing at this guy. What a fucking piece of shit.
Judge for yourself. I was warning this guy about something like this happening, and guess what? It did happen. I just can’t fucking believe somebody is willing to pressure a client to the point of fucking walking them to an ATM machine to pull money out for them at that very moment, sickening.
And if you want to get in touch with this neck grabbing Nathan guy, just google “Nathan Pua”, his facebook is the first one that pops up. He runs lair events in NYC from what I’ve heard.
He did threaten to sue me and I am honestly very afraid of this happening. But I don’t want this happening to anybody else so I’m going to take the risk. From what I’ve heard from friends in the NYC community, he uses these kinds of scare tactics often. Can you even be sued for writing a bad review that is 100% true?
I’m going to end this with, Heartwork and Psych were not affiliated with this neck grabbing incident at all. They were both not there when it occurred, and Nathan made his own judgments to grab my neck and pull this stunt off. I think Heartwork could be an alright coach if he were to be sober the entire night. And Psych is a pretty cool guy who has good intentions and is probably a good coach who made the mistake of simply affiliating with a guy like Nathan.
Ciao.
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Genuine is a Screening Tool
Be Genuine to Screen People
If you want to tell a lot about a woman just take a look at how she responds to you being genuine. This will help you separate the dateable women who test you for strength and the true psychos who feast on drama.
You can tell from the moment you start a conversation.
Cheers! What are you guys celebrating?
Uh, Do we know you?
No, but you looked interesting I wanted to meet you.
Oh hey, I'm Sara.
Freak: Why are you like...still drinking that beer?
Freak Friend: (sensing an opportunity for drama) What the fuck did you say to my friend?
These are the times you simply say pleasure meeting you and RUN not walk away. You do not want to get to know these people.
If a woman doesn’t respond positively to your attempt to be humble or to a genuine apology you will want to get away from her as quick as possible.
These types of people don’t care about logic and reason, they just want drama. Just like when a huge guy says “what the fuck are you looking at”. You can use logic and tell him "I wasn’t looking at you" (you weren’t) but he doesn’t care, he just wants to kick your ass.
Avoid women like this and their friends at all costs, unless you like drama. There is something seriously wrong with a woman who doesn’t respond positively to you being confident but genuine or you giving a humble apology when called for.
This is a huge red flag.
In business, friendships, seductions and relationships.
If you want to tell a lot about a woman just take a look at how she responds to you being genuine. This will help you separate the dateable women who test you for strength and the true psychos who feast on drama.
You can tell from the moment you start a conversation.
Cheers! What are you guys celebrating?
Uh, Do we know you?
No, but you looked interesting I wanted to meet you.
Oh hey, I'm Sara.
Freak: Why are you like...still drinking that beer?
Freak Friend: (sensing an opportunity for drama) What the fuck did you say to my friend?
These are the times you simply say pleasure meeting you and RUN not walk away. You do not want to get to know these people.
If a woman doesn’t respond positively to your attempt to be humble or to a genuine apology you will want to get away from her as quick as possible.
These types of people don’t care about logic and reason, they just want drama. Just like when a huge guy says “what the fuck are you looking at”. You can use logic and tell him "I wasn’t looking at you" (you weren’t) but he doesn’t care, he just wants to kick your ass.
Avoid women like this and their friends at all costs, unless you like drama. There is something seriously wrong with a woman who doesn’t respond positively to you being confident but genuine or you giving a humble apology when called for.
This is a huge red flag.
In business, friendships, seductions and relationships.
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60YsofChallenge: The best way to eat less is to buy smaller plates
60YsofChallenge: The best way to eat less is to buy smaller plates
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A Resource for Beginners
Recently, a guy on my forum asked me for a resource for beginners. This reminded me of an old blog post of mine, back when I was writing on Wordpress. I dug it up and updated it a little bit.
You can read “A very short Guide to Seduction” on my forum.
I modified the text only slightly, but I may rework it in greater detail and eventually release it as a free PDF and in a more appealing layout.
You can read “A very short Guide to Seduction” on my forum.
I modified the text only slightly, but I may rework it in greater detail and eventually release it as a free PDF and in a more appealing layout.
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Update / Upcoming Interview
Just a quick note: the interview I announced recently will be published in early August. It's not my fault but I'm sorry about the delay anyway.
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TheLetterSDCR: LR: Non-verbal extraction of a virgin http://theseducers.com/lCC
TheLetterSDCR: LR: Non-verbal extraction of a virgin http://theseducers.com/lCC
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The Seducer's Newsletter Volume 1, Issue 7: The Game Plan
Table of Conents
- The Game Plan, by 60 Years of Challenge
- Some Nights There is Zero, by Aaron Sleazy
It's not the girl it's the game plan.
The strategy stays the same. Screen out the uninterested girls quickly. Escalate fast. Drag her away. It's so simple. But sometimes we unnecessarily complicate things. What do I do if she is being difficult? What can I say if she has a boyfriend. What is the hidden secret for getting the 10's?
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Upcoming Interview
I've just finished an interview with a Norwegian Pickup blog. It should appear online shortly, and I'll let you know. Hold your breath. :)
In the meantime, if you haven't read them yet, feel free to check my two previous interviews, which have appeared on the following websites:
Special Edition: Sleazy Interview (Cliffslist.com)
Interview with Aaron Sleazy (Draguerunefille.net)
Enjoy!
In the meantime, if you haven't read them yet, feel free to check my two previous interviews, which have appeared on the following websites:
Special Edition: Sleazy Interview (Cliffslist.com)
Interview with Aaron Sleazy (Draguerunefille.net)
Enjoy!
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Debunking "Debunking the Seduction Community"
This is just a quick post.
I recently received an email from a guy who stumbled on my free ebook and liked it a lot. He also pointed me towards a discussion in some forum. Apparently, one guy on there felt rather offended by my arguments and lashed out at me. However, he shut up quickly after:
Do you get laid more than Sleazy?Apparently he doesn't.
I found this rather amusing, and it's symptomatic for the feedback I have received because the very few negative responses were seemingly from people that only pick up women in their head (aka. mental masturbators).
I recently received an email from a guy who stumbled on my free ebook and liked it a lot. He also pointed me towards a discussion in some forum. Apparently, one guy on there felt rather offended by my arguments and lashed out at me. However, he shut up quickly after:
Do you get laid more than Sleazy?Apparently he doesn't.
I found this rather amusing, and it's symptomatic for the feedback I have received because the very few negative responses were seemingly from people that only pick up women in their head (aka. mental masturbators).
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The Industry further degrades
I consider the websites in the pickup/seduction industry to be on the same level as the oh-so-renowned business men trying to sell you techniques that make your cock grow, last longer, cure hair loss, or get you abs within days with zero work at all. This has been mocked by me to some extent already, but the Industry is not sleeping. Quite the contrary, it seems to be a on a roll.
Read on for what I recently got via "Formhandle", the guy running fastseduction.com, home of mASF. The following advert was included in a newsletter and it shows in what a sad state the "community" is. Sure, after tricking people of IQs at borderline-retardation levels into taking bootcamps, you might just sell them some other crap as well as long as they have their wallet open.
#### THAT SHING THAT MIGHT BE SHITTY ####
Oh, yeah, and a reminder about that thing I'm NOT recommending...
It's called Superman Stamina, I've not actually got my hands on itso I can't really review it, so for all I know it's a total turdof a product. Still, since you're probably hearing about it fromother places, I've got to point you to it:
http://www.fastseduction.com/superman-stamina-might-be-total-shit
Get the freebies they'll be emailing. I think there's an articlebehind the page that link leads to, I don't actually remember.
Read on for what I recently got via "Formhandle", the guy running fastseduction.com, home of mASF. The following advert was included in a newsletter and it shows in what a sad state the "community" is. Sure, after tricking people of IQs at borderline-retardation levels into taking bootcamps, you might just sell them some other crap as well as long as they have their wallet open.
#### THAT SHING THAT MIGHT BE SHITTY ####
Oh, yeah, and a reminder about that thing I'm NOT recommending...
It's called Superman Stamina, I've not actually got my hands on itso I can't really review it, so for all I know it's a total turdof a product. Still, since you're probably hearing about it fromother places, I've got to point you to it:
http://www.fastseduction.com/superman-stamina-might-be-total-shit
Get the freebies they'll be emailing. I think there's an articlebehind the page that link leads to, I don't actually remember.
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Interesting Find: Ratisse's Collection of "Field Reports"
Some of you might know Ratisse. He used to post on RSD Nation until they banned him because he had over 100 "lays", or something like that. Recently I learned about his collection of "field reports" called "Confessions of a Pick-up Artist", which I've been skimming the last few days.
While I don't like the jargon like neg, LMR, AFC and the like, I do appreciate the occasional humor in the stories. Some I've found rather hilarious, for instance this part:
End of the night hbdrunk runs away and we can't find her. So I'm acting like a shining knight helping her, really tied into who I portaited myself as. Find HB drunk and literally have to prop her up on our shoulders. Next thing I know HB drunk is making out with my neck. I act unaffected. She complains about her feet hurting so I pick her up in my arms and carry her like a baby. Get to the cousins and theres more drama. I guess cousin had brougt someone home. We walk over to their car and HB drunk makes another pass at me. Im trying to help her in the car and she starts grinding her ass into my crotch.I get her in the car. They start to drive me to my car. HBdrunk tries another one. Drops her phone in the back seat and makes a big deal about it. She gives me that look like put your digits in it. Fuck that I'm not screwing myself by switching. I might blow myself out completely. Get to my car. HbsexyPRican gets out and as she does HB drunk blows a kiss at me. Make out with hbsexyPRican again and go home.The PDF could use some editing, but I won't complain since Ratisse has released the file free of charge. Download or read it on Scribd.
While I don't like the jargon like neg, LMR, AFC and the like, I do appreciate the occasional humor in the stories. Some I've found rather hilarious, for instance this part:
End of the night hbdrunk runs away and we can't find her. So I'm acting like a shining knight helping her, really tied into who I portaited myself as. Find HB drunk and literally have to prop her up on our shoulders. Next thing I know HB drunk is making out with my neck. I act unaffected. She complains about her feet hurting so I pick her up in my arms and carry her like a baby. Get to the cousins and theres more drama. I guess cousin had brougt someone home. We walk over to their car and HB drunk makes another pass at me. Im trying to help her in the car and she starts grinding her ass into my crotch.I get her in the car. They start to drive me to my car. HBdrunk tries another one. Drops her phone in the back seat and makes a big deal about it. She gives me that look like put your digits in it. Fuck that I'm not screwing myself by switching. I might blow myself out completely. Get to my car. HbsexyPRican gets out and as she does HB drunk blows a kiss at me. Make out with hbsexyPRican again and go home.The PDF could use some editing, but I won't complain since Ratisse has released the file free of charge. Download or read it on Scribd.
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"First time with a prostitute, thoughts?"
RSD Nation cracks me up. On PUAHate, I found a link to a post where a guy asks, "first time with a prostitute, thoughts?" (original spelling intact).
I'm a year 19 old virgin only experience kissing 1 girl, in 6 weeks I'll be leaving my town for a year of backpacking in thailand and australia.. now i don't really see any option to get laid soon.. now the big romantic first time won't happen coz i'm backpacking for a year and have no intentions to not try and have sex with random fellowtravelers :-) But I'm going to bangkok and actually i've kinda have been fantasizing about ladyboys, and i'm planning to sure have sex there.So I'm wondering, would it be bad to have my first time with a prostitute? on the one hand it's a special experience and memory.. and when I'm old and married i have to keep it a secret to my wife which i have to keep the rest of my life..at least i think it would be an instant turn-off. on the other hand it's just some sex..whats ur opinion about this, and anyone done it?
I feel sorry for guys like this. However, this post reveals what is wrong with so many guys. For instance, take this sentence:
now i don't really see any option to get laid soon.. now the big romantic first time won't happen coz i'm backpacking for a year and have no intentions to not try and have sex with random fellowtravelers :-)From what I hear, backpacking is one of the easiest ways to get laid. Romantic first time --- I don't know, I haven't met anyone who had a truly romantic first time. After all, a vagina feels much different than one's hand, so it takes some time getting used to it, and some more to really enjoy it. I wish people would take what they see in movies less seriously.
The "ladyboy fantasy" is just odd. To each his own fantasies, but how is it possible to completely rule out random hook-ups, which are the most normal thing on earth, while at the same time entertaining what most would consider a slight aberration. (Not that I am judgmental.)
A hilarious response was:
a ladyboy?? Losing your virginity to a prostitute is one thing, losing it to a ladyboy is an entirely different thing (and not even possible). If you want dick, then by all means - but there are plenty of Thai bargirls, freelancers, hookers, "country good girls" etc etc that you will have an endless opportunity to fuck all night long for 1000 baht.... Whatever you choose, make sure to wrap it up. DONT BE STUPID. Virginity is a bizarre concept anyway. There are girls out there that jump on every opportunity to blow guys or take it from behind but, oh no no no, of course they want to preserve their virginity for marriage.
Just relax. And if you want to fuck ladyboys, then by all means do it.
I'm a year 19 old virgin only experience kissing 1 girl, in 6 weeks I'll be leaving my town for a year of backpacking in thailand and australia.. now i don't really see any option to get laid soon.. now the big romantic first time won't happen coz i'm backpacking for a year and have no intentions to not try and have sex with random fellowtravelers :-) But I'm going to bangkok and actually i've kinda have been fantasizing about ladyboys, and i'm planning to sure have sex there.So I'm wondering, would it be bad to have my first time with a prostitute? on the one hand it's a special experience and memory.. and when I'm old and married i have to keep it a secret to my wife which i have to keep the rest of my life..at least i think it would be an instant turn-off. on the other hand it's just some sex..whats ur opinion about this, and anyone done it?
I feel sorry for guys like this. However, this post reveals what is wrong with so many guys. For instance, take this sentence:
now i don't really see any option to get laid soon.. now the big romantic first time won't happen coz i'm backpacking for a year and have no intentions to not try and have sex with random fellowtravelers :-)From what I hear, backpacking is one of the easiest ways to get laid. Romantic first time --- I don't know, I haven't met anyone who had a truly romantic first time. After all, a vagina feels much different than one's hand, so it takes some time getting used to it, and some more to really enjoy it. I wish people would take what they see in movies less seriously.
The "ladyboy fantasy" is just odd. To each his own fantasies, but how is it possible to completely rule out random hook-ups, which are the most normal thing on earth, while at the same time entertaining what most would consider a slight aberration. (Not that I am judgmental.)
A hilarious response was:
a ladyboy?? Losing your virginity to a prostitute is one thing, losing it to a ladyboy is an entirely different thing (and not even possible). If you want dick, then by all means - but there are plenty of Thai bargirls, freelancers, hookers, "country good girls" etc etc that you will have an endless opportunity to fuck all night long for 1000 baht.... Whatever you choose, make sure to wrap it up. DONT BE STUPID. Virginity is a bizarre concept anyway. There are girls out there that jump on every opportunity to blow guys or take it from behind but, oh no no no, of course they want to preserve their virginity for marriage.
Just relax. And if you want to fuck ladyboys, then by all means do it.
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Ripped Abs Fast!
Most of the Internet seems to consist of scams, primarily in the areas of:
...with (virtually) zero effort on your part. This triad is also known as "health-wealth-relationships" to people who have ever listened to any of Tony Robbin's recordings.
Of course, there are ways to get more attractive, to make money and to get in shape. Unfortunately, it often takes a long time to find the credible resources. Often, they come with little or no cost, quite unlike the more visible and scammy options.
I've done my fair share of Debunking the Seduction Community, Salty Droid is on to the self-proclaimed marketing gurus like Frank Kern and "Eben Pagan", whom we all know from the "community" as well, and very recently, since I have decided to get into really good shape again, I came across Scooby's Home Body Building Workouts. Incidentally, he entertains a free website that will teach you everything you need to know if you want improve your physique.
Further, Scooby doesn't like the scammers in the weight-loss industry. Cf. the following video, which nicely concludes this post:
- Making Money
- Getting in Shape
- Pulling Girls
...with (virtually) zero effort on your part. This triad is also known as "health-wealth-relationships" to people who have ever listened to any of Tony Robbin's recordings.
Of course, there are ways to get more attractive, to make money and to get in shape. Unfortunately, it often takes a long time to find the credible resources. Often, they come with little or no cost, quite unlike the more visible and scammy options.
I've done my fair share of Debunking the Seduction Community, Salty Droid is on to the self-proclaimed marketing gurus like Frank Kern and "Eben Pagan", whom we all know from the "community" as well, and very recently, since I have decided to get into really good shape again, I came across Scooby's Home Body Building Workouts. Incidentally, he entertains a free website that will teach you everything you need to know if you want improve your physique.
Further, Scooby doesn't like the scammers in the weight-loss industry. Cf. the following video, which nicely concludes this post:
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60YsofChallenge: Mathematical Proof On Why Trying To Attract Women Fails http://bit.ly/9X1uAt
60YsofChallenge: Mathematical Proof On Why Trying To Attract Women Fails http://bit.ly/9X1uAt
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RSD Strikes again: The RSD Hot Seat
RSD has a new programme called "RSD Hot Seat". Apparently, you'll get to see a couple of videos, most of which are available free of charge on YouTube plus some "commentary". It just sets you back $300.
In Tyler's words:
The Hot Seat was built over a year to be a mind-blowing event that’s thrilling and entertaining, as well as the most educational one day experience (on this topic…) physically possible.
Next time surely God will descend and give Tyler his long-overdue blessing.
Here's a review:
The RSD-Hotseat event seemed like a great way to see the top dogs
in action and get an idea of what I have to work on to get my game to
the next level. I did find the answers I was looking for and in that sense
I am another satisfied customer but the event itself was rather disappointing.
Only a 3rd of the videos had any real value for me, the rest was filler or wasn't
put in proper context by the narrator. One video that springs to mind is the one
where Jeffy puts the moves on a rather unattractive British girl, with upper arms
as big as my thighs. I don't think anybody who has abundance with women
would bother with her. So I wasn't sure what I was watching. Was this Jeffy
living it up at his peak or was there a specific point to showing this video?
I guess I will never know.
Brad was also rather disappointing. He was introduced as the 'fluff-talk-master'
and a video of him randomly talking to the camera for 3 minutes straight was
supposed to showcase this talent. Turns out he was just reciting the lyrics to
an ice cube song from the early 90's. So much for that, The other video of Brad
where he kisses a girl after a minute might blow a newbie away but anyone
who's gone out for a bit knows that often shit just drops in your lap, if you make
a move... boom! There really wasn't much to learn there when it comes to skill.
Again, the context is important. If this is just a cool anecdote or a showcase of
'what's possible', fine! But then narrate that shit properly.
And then there were the filler videos. For example, 10 minutes of Alexander's
travel snapshots cut to tacky music. I didn't fly 500 miles to sit through that shit.
So what about the good stuff? Well, both Tyler and Ryan had an amazing vibe
going on, with girls pretty much melting seconds into each interaction. Lots of
physical contact, lots of nonsense, lots of intent and the girls were clearly
digging it. Luckily there were also some bits where the girls put up a little
resistance, that's where the good stuff is if you ask me. In one video Tyler has
to deal with an obstacle in a two set. He wins her over but then loses her again.
We get to see all the gritty details, the good and the bad. I would love to have
heard the man himself narrate that one. Then there was Ryan who ends up
pulling a girl who actually discovers that she is being filmed. Ryan managed
to spin that shit into social proof and boom. Awesomage!
If this event comes to a town near you and you'd really love to take a look at
the RSD Dudes in action, by all means... go! But in my opinion this Euro version
of the hotseat needs a lot of work.
Props to RSD, though, for keeping this review online, and if it ever gets deleted, here's a backup:
http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=5497
Source:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/155775
Oh, and as a side note, Tyler/Papa please refrain from sending me some lame emails through your unpaid interns. My actions are perfectly covered by the Fair Use doctrine. But feel free to waste your time and money.
In Tyler's words:
The Hot Seat was built over a year to be a mind-blowing event that’s thrilling and entertaining, as well as the most educational one day experience (on this topic…) physically possible.
Next time surely God will descend and give Tyler his long-overdue blessing.
Here's a review:
The RSD-Hotseat event seemed like a great way to see the top dogs
in action and get an idea of what I have to work on to get my game to
the next level. I did find the answers I was looking for and in that sense
I am another satisfied customer but the event itself was rather disappointing.
Only a 3rd of the videos had any real value for me, the rest was filler or wasn't
put in proper context by the narrator. One video that springs to mind is the one
where Jeffy puts the moves on a rather unattractive British girl, with upper arms
as big as my thighs. I don't think anybody who has abundance with women
would bother with her. So I wasn't sure what I was watching. Was this Jeffy
living it up at his peak or was there a specific point to showing this video?
I guess I will never know.
Brad was also rather disappointing. He was introduced as the 'fluff-talk-master'
and a video of him randomly talking to the camera for 3 minutes straight was
supposed to showcase this talent. Turns out he was just reciting the lyrics to
an ice cube song from the early 90's. So much for that, The other video of Brad
where he kisses a girl after a minute might blow a newbie away but anyone
who's gone out for a bit knows that often shit just drops in your lap, if you make
a move... boom! There really wasn't much to learn there when it comes to skill.
Again, the context is important. If this is just a cool anecdote or a showcase of
'what's possible', fine! But then narrate that shit properly.
And then there were the filler videos. For example, 10 minutes of Alexander's
travel snapshots cut to tacky music. I didn't fly 500 miles to sit through that shit.
So what about the good stuff? Well, both Tyler and Ryan had an amazing vibe
going on, with girls pretty much melting seconds into each interaction. Lots of
physical contact, lots of nonsense, lots of intent and the girls were clearly
digging it. Luckily there were also some bits where the girls put up a little
resistance, that's where the good stuff is if you ask me. In one video Tyler has
to deal with an obstacle in a two set. He wins her over but then loses her again.
We get to see all the gritty details, the good and the bad. I would love to have
heard the man himself narrate that one. Then there was Ryan who ends up
pulling a girl who actually discovers that she is being filmed. Ryan managed
to spin that shit into social proof and boom. Awesomage!
If this event comes to a town near you and you'd really love to take a look at
the RSD Dudes in action, by all means... go! But in my opinion this Euro version
of the hotseat needs a lot of work.
Props to RSD, though, for keeping this review online, and if it ever gets deleted, here's a backup:
http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=5497
Source:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/155775
Oh, and as a side note, Tyler/Papa please refrain from sending me some lame emails through your unpaid interns. My actions are perfectly covered by the Fair Use doctrine. But feel free to waste your time and money.
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PUA "re-framing"
Recently I was pointed towards a thread on RSD Nation with the title "i was fired today" (original spelling kept intact).
The original post was from a guy who told that he got fired as a bank teller. Nothing overly exciting about that, even though the last line made me smile due to its deprecating humour:
how wil this effect my game? well i guess im going to find out. but i havent gotten laid since 2008, so i guess it cant get much worse :p
In my opinion, the reply by "subx" stood out:
Your game should be go through the roof now that you have all this free time.
YOU WON THE LOTTERY BRO.
Can you spell "re-frame"?
However, the user CamTron took home the prize for "most ridiculous post this week":
I got fired from my summer camp job for my PUA tendencies... I was too upsetting to the AMOGs at camp and my partying lifestyle was too intimidating for the company as a liability. One night i missed a curfew and i got fired.
It sounds funny now... and it really IS funny... but back then, when i was separated from friends and my kids who were very much attached to me as their role model...
It was really tough dude. but I laugh back at it now because I now that it really helped me grow in the long run.
I wonder when students will begin to challenge their teachers for flunking them. "No, I only got an F because you are too stuck in your own reality, bro. In mine this shit doesn't even register." :D
The original post was from a guy who told that he got fired as a bank teller. Nothing overly exciting about that, even though the last line made me smile due to its deprecating humour:
how wil this effect my game? well i guess im going to find out. but i havent gotten laid since 2008, so i guess it cant get much worse :p
In my opinion, the reply by "subx" stood out:
Your game should be go through the roof now that you have all this free time.
YOU WON THE LOTTERY BRO.
Can you spell "re-frame"?
However, the user CamTron took home the prize for "most ridiculous post this week":
I got fired from my summer camp job for my PUA tendencies... I was too upsetting to the AMOGs at camp and my partying lifestyle was too intimidating for the company as a liability. One night i missed a curfew and i got fired.
It sounds funny now... and it really IS funny... but back then, when i was separated from friends and my kids who were very much attached to me as their role model...
It was really tough dude. but I laugh back at it now because I now that it really helped me grow in the long run.
I wonder when students will begin to challenge their teachers for flunking them. "No, I only got an F because you are too stuck in your own reality, bro. In mine this shit doesn't even register." :D
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The New Dating Game
Finding Love in NYC
Spoke yesterday at the NYC Dating Conference about making attraction official and your real fear of escalation. I revealed some new thoughts on the subject and I will try to share some of them with you soon.
Other speakers included BradP, AFC Adam, and Vin DiCarlo. There were also several female reporters in attendance from The New York Times and the conference also made the front page of AM New York (see above).
Although I thought the article was kind of lame and included typical dating advice.
You Can Read it Here
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The Number 6
6 is the Loneliest Number
The say the average guy gets about 6 lays over the course of a lifetime. That may be true - but I doubt that's because he didn't learn secret pickup tricks. Most likely his number would be much higher if he knew how to take advantage of the opportunities he WAS already getting.
In the end, he probably never introduced himself to that many new women, didn't make attraction official when it was there and even when he did - he didn't push things sexually. That's the real reason why he retires with the number 6.
Coming soon
- women love sex (for real)
- you blow more than you get (why some get worse)
The say the average guy gets about 6 lays over the course of a lifetime. That may be true - but I doubt that's because he didn't learn secret pickup tricks. Most likely his number would be much higher if he knew how to take advantage of the opportunities he WAS already getting.
In the end, he probably never introduced himself to that many new women, didn't make attraction official when it was there and even when he did - he didn't push things sexually. That's the real reason why he retires with the number 6.
Coming soon
- women love sex (for real)
- you blow more than you get (why some get worse)
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